SEXUAL WARFARE WITH YOUR OWN BODY

Have we all forgotten about what is really important in life? Or are we all seeking the “quick fixes?” I believe we are! In a world that has the “hurry up and come get it and order it now you can have it fast technology” YES!!! So many damn new devices to get a quick fix. And the internet is one of them! Am I on it now? Of course I am! We are so lustful that we get on the net to get many things for ourselves. Let me break down a list for you:
A. Dating
B. Love
C. Marriage
D. Sex (this should have been number one!)
E. Friends
F. Cult organizations
G. Religious organizations
H. Jobs
I. News
J. Gossip
K. Shopping
L. Pedophilia (sick-o’s)
M. Moochers
N. Murderers
O. Con-artist
P. Sports
Q. Politics
R. TV shows
And the list goes on and on!

Right now I am going to focus on the sexual device (which is not the only lust in the world) so many people use this as the hurry up and buy quick drug! I recall when you could only seek a prostitute on the street or had to call an escort service. Now you can join millions of chat rooms, swinger organizations, swinger & orgy loose sex men and women who could care less if they get “sick dick” or not. (Venereal disease) And the funny thing (not in a ha ha way) is I have talked to many people in this genre and they (some) practice safe sex but don’t practice safe “oral” sex!! (I have the duh look on my face right now) Being bi-sexual is now the new heterosexual for a lot of people. (Notice I do not say all, most or everyone) Sex like food is an addiction and a real quick high!

I started writing on Erotic Cities the Flip-Side in 2006 figuring out the sex liaisons’ of two totally different cities because the attitudes were so different in both cities and states. Here I thought that people in California were a step above in a lot of areas because of the major cities that dwelled in the state, and to my wake up call it is the complete opposite! Though there is seedy and shady sexual discourse going on all over the world. California (in some locales or cities) is on the back burner and down low. (No comparison to the sexually down-low man who secretly sleeps with gay men) While yes sex bright lights and beach beauties are described in Hollywood as a lure and promoted. But when I lived on the east coast and visited the east coast I found that they were more advanced! Wow! Can this be true? A state or city that is more sexually promiscuous than another? Why yes! And some countries are too!

So I am amazed how you can Google by just typing in a few words in the search engine of what it is you seek for that quick sexual lustful high! Can a child click on “yes” they are 18yrs and older to get to these sites? Of course because the internet can’t ask you to show some ID now can it? Hmmmmm…..

Every place I have roamed I have been approached with some sexual advance. And here are these “people” willing too hook up over the net and hang out for sex. Uh do killers get on these sites to find their next victims? Um let me think about that….. (Jeopardy music playing) Well yes they do!!! Duh! Dammit I need you (some of you) to wake up! Rapists troll these sites as well. So sex to me is no longer dangerous because you could get AIDS, VD, Herpes or any other disease known to mankind for having illicit unprotected sex! You can now die instantly because this person has a fetish of having sex with you and then killing you! Too much!!

I have said to some men that have approached me via being on the east coast because I was not accustomed to such raw straight up out of the direct gate can I hit that now and come home with me ASAP. It was done with a bit more decorum. Soooo I had to get smart, I had to be direct and say, “You don’t even know me. You do not know if I have AIDS or any form of VD. If I am the type of person that would drug you and set you up. Yet you are willing to come home with me and have sex” The look on their faces! Priceless.

Now in any of these blogs have I professed to be holier than thou. I have changed a lot and I am a happily married woman. Who had to learn that sex is a drug. That it is accustomed for some to use it as such for money and power. For depression and anger, to get back at someone who has hurt them and place themselves in a precarious situation.

Can lust me placed on ice? Are we all that selfish that we need to feed our sexual desires that we are willing to put ourselves in precarious situations just for the sake of it?? IDK …. Don’t shoot the messenger… I’m just saying…

Well my time is up, but next time I speak on the erotic cities in the small hick southern no more than 1,500 people town and will tell you how they do it!! SMH

05/2011